Dating army men
Ofcourse I am now going to start wondering what is he up to, who is he with, why did he need to lie to me, is he messing around.This is the worst possible thoughts to be constantly having. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 4 years.In order to have a truly fulfilling relationship (or even start a healthy relationship) with a great guy, you need to come from a place of strength, confidence, and fulfillment.Whenever a relationship goes sour (or fails to launch), it’s almost always caused by some tiny fear, doubt, worry or insecurity that grows and festers until you feel overwhelmed by the whole ordeal. Your fears and worries compel you to confirm whether they’re real or imaginary.
Trust me it saves both parties a hell of a lot of heartache to just not lie in general. And he said he has an allergic reaction and was given a shot and antibiotics. I live in LA, and men lie here ALL the time – and the lies aren’t even for good intention like to protect me or show off. He lies about things to my face, and I know he is lying. “I was outside on my lunch break at work, and I was standing next to “John”, and he was smoking it.” “Thats why you smell it on me”. That still didn’t explain why, when he kissed me, I could taste it on his lips, and smell it on his breath.
A man who promises certain behavior that his partner also promises i.e. I don’t think its necessary for someone to do that. I don’t have a problem with him smoking it to relieve pain. In spite of everyone saying that Pot isn’t physically addictive, a person can still become addicted to it. What I have a problem with is someone who uses substances to escape their lives.
like keeping intimate things private and then talks about their lovemaking adventures with someone else was lying when he agreed to keep things private but never intended to. Also, when he was in his 20’s he overcame a Cocaine addiction. At the end of the day, the problems are still there . He doesn’t remember conversations, he stinks of weed, and when he is stoned, I don’t know if his behavior is just him being a little weird that day (silly–which I love), or is it because he’s stoned.
A man lying to a woman he is involved with especially when it is an intimate relationship says one thing. Regardless if she expresses herself in a controlled manner. Bottom line is those kind of men have no regards to women’s feelings, they believe they can say things and act as they want and the woman should demonstrate understanding or keep her emotions to herself. Women, speak up however you do it , and if he disappears, then you know what to do. (Because of his back.) There might be alternative treatments available after he sees a Doctor, and has some tests done on his back. I’m working on finding a counselor for me, to have someone to talk to.
If he apologies (sincerely), use your womanly God given intuition. He should have been honest with me when we first started dating 18 months ago, about how much he smokes it. You have enough evidence he is lying, say goodbye and move on! Try to write properly using complete sentences and punctuation.